There's what your dad wants from you, and your mom.
There's what your teachers expect of you.
There's what your friends think you should be doing, and what the newscasters on TV think everybody should be doing.
There's what your community thinks you should be doing, your kids, your grandpa, your religous leader, your doctor, your boss. Then there's your spouse, and what he or she thinks you should be doing.

What do you want to do?